Let me start by updating you on my 40 Random Acts of Kindness before my 40th BD! I’m just so super excited about this. I love helping others, but what has really made this worth while is showing Mr. T that you can change the world, one small act at a time. As I’ve mentioned before, several of the items are low or no cost, because I wanted to drive home the point to everyone that you don’t have to have a lot of money to make a big different in someone else’s life! You can see the full list here.
Today we dropped off a case of water at the local fire station. This is the Fire Department that responded when mom and dad’s house caught fire when I was 7 mo pregnant and was storing all of my stuff at their place. So, they have a special place in my heart. We ended up just leaving the case of water at the front door, as I couldn’t get in and didn’t want to go wandering through the fire house! But, Mr. T enjoyed it – he felt good leaving them a surprise!
If you took time to read the list, you’ll see that I crossed out “make a care package and drop it off at a homeless shelter” and made a note that I changed this to Blessing Bags. If you don’t know about Blessing Bags, they are pretty awesome! The goal is to make a little bags to keep in your car to hand out when you see a homeless person, sometimes I’m just not comfortable handing out money, so this is a great alternative. These bags are all over Pinterest if you are interested, (and you can follow me by clicking on the link to the right!)
I read through some of the ideas and then headed out. I did my grocery shopping with my handy dandy calculator on my phone and discovered that I was going to come out $30 under budget… so it was time to start! I bought what I could at the grocery story and then headed to the Dollar Store to fill in the gaps!
I grabbed brown paper bags and a case of water. Then I grabbed:
- Kleenex,
- moist wipes,
- lip balm,
- snack crackers,
- granola bars,
- toothbrushes and paste,
- combs and
- band-aids.
I put out a call on Facebook that I was putting these together and taking donations of supplies and my mom responded almost immediately. I picked up a big bag of sample size shampoo’s and lotion’s (Read: gathered up from all of the hotels she and dad has stayed at!) and I get to add those to the bags as well! I’ll get the first 20 bags put together and these will go with Mr. T and his youth group at church the next time they go downtown to distribute food to the homeless. I’m pretty excited. Due to my mom’s donation, for about $2 each, these bags should be full of items to help someone out. There is food and water to feed their insides. There will be lip balm and wipes to take care of their outsides. I have found a bible verse to put on a gift tag to help feed their soul. I think that covers the basics. And, hopefully, they will be appreciated and something that will last longer than cans of food.
Anyway, I’m pretty darn excited about it! I’ll keep a couple in my car to hand out, too.
Lastly, let me address the coffee part, since it is part of the title of the blog!
My Keurig broke several days ago. I spent time trouble shooting it on Google, I called and spent 30 minutes on the phone with Keurig customer support and they finally let me know that it was not fixable. Ugh. They did offer me a “discount” on a new unit.
Well, after a little more time on Google and varies on-line retail shops, I discovered that their “discount” could easily be beat! And, not only could their discount be beat, but I could get a different color…
Hello lovely! Let me tell you – this beautiful purple joy was worth suffering through 3 days of decaf coffee!
What a beautiful and thoughtful idea – Blessing Bags! I definitely think I will borrow this idea to do with my daughters.
Thank you for inspiring me and so many others!
Thanks Katherine! I’m just in love with this idea! I think that every time I don’t spend all my grocery money, I’ll be picking up items for the bags, getting one item each trip will so be a wonderful habit!
Yah for new coffee makers!!!! and I love the color 🙂
Thanks! I’m just in love with it!!
I like the idea of gestures of kindness to others, especially getting others involved in putting them together, donating items, and teaching kids to look for ways to help others too.
I do too! I think that we are made to give back to others! And I just love how T is really getting into it!
I love the acts of kindness idea, and sometimes it is just a small thing that goes a long way. Tying it to your birthday is a wonderful idea. The bags are a good idea – it sounds like useful items.
Thanks! Tying it to my birthday was one of those random thoughts that hit my mind and I had to just run with!
I’m in love with the bags, so excited to be doing those!
I’ll look out for the followup report on them?
oops meant to say ‘wait BY the car’
My goal is to make it to a warehouse club before we start handing these out and pick up some individual packets of Tylenol or Advil to include. I read somewhere, imagine having a headache and not being able to take something for it? That one really hit me hard!
I thought about the “treat” portion, and started to do chocolates, but ended up with peppermints instead. I figure through the months and with all of the great suggestions, I’ll end up picking up different things as I go along! I’m just really excited to have these to hand out!
The blessing bags are an awesome way to give back. Im not always in a charitable mood, but sometimes when ive done my groceries and am packing them away in my car, often someone would come and beg and once in a while i would ask them to please wait in the car while i go back in store. I am also not really comfortable giving money away as the chances are they would use it for drugs or alcohol, but everyone needs food right? so i’ll buy a bag full of things and always include a special treat, like a small bar of chocolate. Everyone deserves a treat once in a while
I laughed when you spoke about your parent’s collection from hotels they stayed in the past because I do that too! Hahahaha
I just love you! and I would totally do this if we had a car LMAO But I have a big bag which can hold a lot of stuff. Hmm you gave me an idea.
You rock Kate!
Thanks! I know I’ve said the word frequently, but I’m so excited about this project! Mr. T and I do a lot of giving back, but this project was so much easier than I expected and I had to share it! I’m glad that you enjoyed it and that I have given you an idea!
All of your ideas are so crafty…I love them! However, I am more impressed that you actually called the Keurig place to see if you could fix it…….I would never have made the time or had the patience. I would have just asked someone to buy me a new one for my birthday.:) That purple one is cute as a button though…..So, nice work!
my birthday is 6 mo away – but don’t think I didn’t consider calling my mom and seeing if she wanted to buy me an early gift!!
Dang. I’m down with the blessing bag idea too! I love the name. There is so much good that comes from giving. Its crazy. Its how we were designed to live!
Very cool, Kate!
Thank you! They are so much easier than I expected, I had fun shopping for good bargains too, as it is important to me to show my son that it doesn’t have to cost a lot to make a big change in the world!
I agree – we were designed to give! Thanks so much! 🙂
What a beautiful and inspirational post! Well done Kate, you are a good egg!
Thank you! 🙂 I know that you are frequently giving back, so that’s a big compliment coming from you!
And WP signed me out of the program and I didn’t realize it, so some of my replies went wonky… your’s is probably the only one that won’t make sense – but the main point is “Thank you!” 🙂
You’re very welcome!
I actually have been practicing a lot of giving-back these past two years, as part of my personal growth/journey — but haven’t written much about that, so I wondered how you knew. 🙂
I’m just that good! 🙂 No, that comment was for someone else, but I didn’t realize that I wasn’t signed in and when it all happened, well, I was off a line and didn’t realize it!
and now – you need to post about the giving back! 🙂 Along with the new job! 🙂
🙂 Maybe. The work I’ve been doing feels special to me because I don’t tell a lot of people about it. In the same way that I wouldn’t share when I’ve written cheques/given donations to charities in the past, I also feel a bit weird sharing details of the hands-on work I’m doing. Maybe at some point I’ll share, but right now it feels good just knowing that I know what I’m doing. 🙂
that’s what matters! We are made to give back!
hear, hear!
I’ve never heard of blessing bags until now! I was looking for a way to give back and I think these are great!
Half of the fun for me is hunting down the bargains for the supplies! I made a sample bag for Mr. T to show his youth group, and I was surprised at how full I got the sack! On average, you can make them for $3/bag, and I’m just in love with the concept!!
These random acts of kindness is such a nice thing. I enjoy the update. The whole list thing reminds me of the show My Name is Earl. Anyway, it’s very cool that you are inspiring and teaching your son – as well as your readers. Awesome stuff!
Thank you! And thanks for letting me know that you enjoy the updates, I always struggle to make sure that the tone is inspirational and not bragging… so it is a huge relief to hear that you are enjoying the updates, thanks for letting me know!
It does not come off as bragging at all. It feels like you are enthusiastic (I think you used the word excited like 4 times!) and happy to be doing something meaningful.
Thank you so much! I really value your opinion! And, I’d invest in a thesaurus but then I wouldn’t be writing in my voice, which right now, trumps using astonishing, interesting, melodramatic, and rip-roaring words 🙂
Funny.
Just watched “The Bucket List” and one of the questions Morgan Freeman asked was “Have you found happiness?” The other was “Have you shared this happiness?”
I thought of you and this list. I’m proud of what you are doing.
Thank you!! I’ve found that holding myself accountable didn’t take any of the joy out of doing things for others, but is keeping me more aware of it. 🙂
We took a sample of the blessing bags to church today so T could run it by the youth director and they loved the idea. So, I think it’s going to be a great addition to our lives!
Again, thank you, it means a lot to me that you said so!
I LOVE the blessing bags!!!!! I think I might give it a go!! I feel inspired!
Thanks! We took a sample to church today and the youth group loved them! It really is so simple, each time I have money left in the grocery budget, I’ll pick up more items, so I’m really excited about doing them this year!
Awesome idea!! Keep spreading the love 🙂
Thank you! 🙂
Oh what a cool idea! And love the purple Kuerig!
Thank you! We are loving the blessing bags so far, I think it is going to work out really well. And yes, I’m so in love with the purple! 🙂
You are a wonderful person and a great example for your son!
Our Keurig is on it’s last leg as well, I was really sad about until I saw your new baby 🙂 Maybe it’s time I let it go and get a new one!
Thank you so much! I’ve really enjoyed us being accountable for the acts of kindness this year, as it’s kept it in the front of our minds and I’ve so loved watching it all through my son’s eyes!
Oh, the purple… I don’t have the words. I did have a blue one last time, but the purple, I’m just in love!
Blessing bags are such a wonderful idea Kate! You have a good heart and these bags will brighten up so many people’s day 😃
Thanks! I’m really super excited about them, and the youth group loved them, so we are going to start getting them put together, keep some in my car and then the kids will distribute them the next time they go out to distribute food.
I love the Blessing Bags, Kate! What a fantastic way to help, I may have to do this with my daughter. You’re such a kind and thoughtful person 🙂
And, the purple Keurig is awesome! We had one that died too a while back after all the descaling with vinegar pain in the booty. We finally had to get a new one too.
I can’t say enough how much I love the purple! I had a blue one before, but the purple is just so amazing!
And thanks! Any time I have extra money in the grocery budget I’ll be picking up supplies so that I can just keep making them!
I really like the idea of the blessing bags.
Thanks! We took a sample to the youth group this morning and the director liked the idea, so Mr. T and I will be making those for their trips to distribute to the homeless instead of just canned food. I’m so in love with them that I’ll be keeping some in my car, too!
That machine is DIVINE and a fitting reward for one with such a beautiful heart. I love your 40 random acts of kindness and I love the Blessing Bags. You rock!!!
Thank you! And Divine is the exact right word!! 😉
Blessing bags are a flipping great idea!
Thanks! I’m super excited about them! They are turning out great! And so easy to make while full of great items!
I hope to hear what your experience is handing them out.
That is such an amazing idea! Such an inspiration 🙂
Thanks! We are really enjoying making them!
I love the idea of teaching your son to make a difference! What a good idea to keep some blessings bags in the car.
Thanks! We are having so much fun with the acts of kindness, and I love how he can see that we can make a difference with little or no cost to us!
Can I just day I LOVE you! You do inspire and I was smiling all the way through this post. I dig your new purple coffee machine.
Thank you! 🙂 I am having so much fun, but seeing it all through my teenagers eyes is the best! And yeah, I’m so in love with my new purple coffee maker!!
You inspire me! And I LOVE YOUR PURPLE COFFEEMAKER. I actually love it.
I’m glad to be an inspiration and oh yes, the purple coffee maker is THE BOMB!!
What a great post, and I am glad Mr. T gets a kick out of giving back too 🙂
A purple Keurig would almost make me want to drink coffee. Almost.
My heart is so full watching Mr. T and his acts of kindness. He is doing extra chores to save up money to go but can openers. Many of the homeless said they get cans donated but can’t open them.
And I use my keurig to make my daily oatmeal, too! 🙂
Kate, this is incredible! Heart-warming. I already admired you, but this really makes my day! Thanks for posting.
I’m glad you liked it! We’ve been working hard to change the world one random act of kindness at a time! 🙂
Great post, great heart, great color!
Thank you, thank you and thank you! I’m really loving the purple! 🙂
This is such a good idea Kate! If only I thought of something like that when I turned 40 last year 🙂 You have a such a generous heart, if only there were more Kates like you in this world! 🙂
Ah, thank you Dean!!! That means a lot to me! I’m having fun with it, but it’s so much fun to watch Mr. T enjoy it and make it habitual! 🙂