Did you read my Facebook post? Are you aware that my wonderful son created a secondary FB page in order to hide his activity from me? Have you read any other post by me and realized that he was never going to get away with it? LOL.
It’s been several days since I took away his iPod, Xbox, computer and removed the internet from his phone. It’s been a weekend of growth.
I took him to his grandparents on Friday, as he was spending the night with them so I could go spend the night with my Amy. It was worth it! Pam joined us and the three of us went and got tattoos. Took forever, but, alas, I don’t pick from a book anymore, I tell Bailey what I want and he has to draw it for me. But, he’s done great on the past couple of tattoos, and I trust him. We planned this trip because he’s leaving the shop where he currently works. I wanted one more by him before he left. Yes, I have multiple tattoos – judge away!
It was fun hanging out and just having some girl time. We all needed it.
I picked T up Saturday morning, I needed to run to Target and T needed some new jeans, so we also hit Kohl’s. It was a good trip and even though we were running errands, we had fun together. T decided, since I had plans with another friend, he could just stay at Grammy and Papa’s again.
Twist my arm… So, I left T behind and then took off to spend the afternoon with Karaboo. We had no plans; we just had free time and wanted to do something! Well, Joann’s Fabric was having their pattern sale… $15 patterns for $1. You can’t beat that! Plus, I had asked Karaboo to help me make a Halloween costume! She’s a talented seamstress. I really wish I could sew. I think that it’s mainly the fact that I run out of patience. We had fun picking patterns and fabric, and we got a good start on my costume. It’s cool to see it all come together! We ended the night having dinner together with her husband. It was a great night!
Sunday, I spent the day alone nursing a toothache. We’ll skip that day!
Today is Monday, and it is a school holiday. T and I slept in. We made waffles together for breakfast. I warmed up some left overs for lunch. We ran to 7-Eleven for movies and munchies. When it was time to return the movies, well, I decided I could afford to pick up burgers! I’ve told you before, but time in the car with T has its benefits. On the drive T told me that it was weird to drop Facebook cold turkey! He had just started really using it and then he had to stop.
I told him that I have a specific time frame in mind for his punishment, and after that time frame, it’s up to him.
He knows that I’m waiting for the admission of wrong-doing and an apology. Today in the car he admitted that he knew I was waiting on that and he told me “I thought about just saying I was sorry, and that I understand, but, I don’t know that I’m ready to say it. I want to make sure I mean it before I say it.” I told him that I didn’t think he was ready to say it yet. That he needed to fully process it and understand what he did was wrong.
I was so proud of him. He isn’t willing to just give me lip service to get his privileges back. He’s working on being a better person. I had this weekend to reconnect with my friends on an individual level and was able to celebrate the progress I’ve made in my life.
I hope that we both keep growing and keep counting our blessings. And I hope that I will always have moments with T that blow me away and leave me wondering “did that just happen?”